Listen... [There's a name shaped pause here, before he caves and pats the complete and total stranger, really, on the shoulder backish area.] ...I already tore my heart out once! You're making it sound easy! It takes effort to rip out your heart, you know. Honestly, next thing we know you'll be asking me to rip out my heart just because you can't get a jar of peanut butter open...do you cook?